Gift # 1 Towards Wealth and Abundance – spend a few moments with yourself – we don’t tend to do this – you will be amazed at what you find out – stop and ask yourself – what do you really want for your life.

Gift # 2 Towards Wealth and Abundance – realize that your life is not about you – it is about serving something bigger than you. It is about finding a way to do what you love while giving back and making a difference in others people’s lives.

Gift # 3 Towards Wealth and Abundance – get into the corridor of what you love – of what you want to do – of what you want to be. Surround yourself with the people you want to be like, the people who are already doing what you want to do – and the people that are doing it successfully – talk to them, ask them what they are doing that is working. Don’t reinvent the wheel – take what works and use it.
Find mentors in all areas of your life – your career, your relationship, your finances – and make sure they know more than you – if you want a financial advisor make sure they make a lot of money at what they do.

Gift # 4 Towards Wealth and Abundance – know that life will throw you curves so when it does – look past the curves for the open door – the door that is offering you a different opportunity than the one you thought you should be getting. Look for the gifts in your life and watch where they are taking you and you will be surprised at how many gifts you are actually being given.

Gift # 5 Towards Wealth and Abundance – see the chaos in your life as an opportunity to grow and evolve. Everyone gets chaos in their life – everyone has a bad day, or a bad week or a bad year!! So have gratitude for your chaos – see the gift in it – be grateful for what you are learning, for the strengths you are gaining for the support you are receiving. When my life is in chaos – I give thanks for it and I look to see what I am learning from it – and when I find gratitude for the chaos in my life – things change and the chaos turns back into calm again – because gratitude brings your life back into order. You cannot be depressed and grateful at the same time.

Gift # 6 Towards Wealth and Abundance – know that nothing is missing in your life – you have everything you already need – it just may not be in the form you are grateful for it in – but where is it? Can you remove a drop of water from the universe? No, you can freeze it, you can evaporate it, you can condense it – but you cannot remove it – so is it really missing? If you think wealth is missing in your life – where is it? Where is your wealth? Do you have your wealth in your home? In your family? In the abundance of friends?
What do you think is missing in your life? Now ask yourself – where is it – what form have I put it in? Have gratitude for where you have it and you will get it where you want it.

Gift # 7 Towards Wealth and Abundance – be aware of what you are telling yourself and others. You attract into your life what you think – what you tell yourself and others you can have. We want wealth and abundance right?
But what do we really think about – about how we need to make money how we want to get out of debt how we want to have enough money to go on trips, buy big houses – so what are we really focusing on – we are focusing on the lack of money – the lack of wealth, not the abundance of wealth and money. So what do we attract – more debt!!!

I focus on wealth all the time – on what it will look like, what it will feel like, what I will do with it and I bring up the vibration of wealth as often as I can.

Once every two weeks I sit down and I go online and I pay all of my bills – pay my debt – I do it as quickly as I can and I give it no energy – no focus – I do it but I don’t give it as little thought as I can. An when I am paying a debt I visualize that it is money coming back to me and I give thanks for it – focusing on wealth. Because that is what I want to attract – I don’t want to attract debt.

You cannot push anything away from you – by trying to push something away you are activating the vibration of it and therefore attracting it to you.
You are like a magnet attracting to yourself what you are thinking and feeling.

If you are feeling fat, you cannot attract thin.
If you feel poor, you cannot attract wealth. You will attract more opportunities for debt
If you are focusing on how lonely you are – you will attract more opportunities to be lonely
If you are focusing on how depressed you feel – you will attract more things to be depressed about
If you are focusing on how you can’t find a job - you will not notice the opportunities for a new job

Be careful what you are saying to yourself – focus on what you want – not on what you have – focus on what makes you feel good – not on what makes you worry.

And be your own best friend – there are enough people out there to tell you you can’t do something – so don’t listen – support yourself –break the habit of the negative self talk…

Gift # 8 Towards Wealth and Abundance – take a look back at your parents – the people who raised you and gave you your beliefs around wealth and abundance – what you could have and what you couldn’t and THEIR beliefs around why. Now take a look at your own life and see how you have created a similar model . How you may have taken on one or another of your parents fears around wealth, or debt – where they may have failed so you have sabotaged yourself in a similar way. Our parents were great teachers – sometimes to good because we carry so much of their beliefs and fears forward into our own life which causes us issues with moving forward to being who we know we should be. But you don’t have to own their fears – you are an adult now – learn to recognize what is your belief and what is someone else’s and keep the beliefs that serve you well and dump the ones that don’t.

You are the only one that limits yourselves by what you continually tell yourselves in your head. And the measurement of what you are telling yourself is the quality of your current life.

Change the talk – Take responsibility for your life – you are the author – you get to write the story.

What you think today defines your tomorrow. So make it great. And I wish you all wealth and abundance this holiday season!


Cara Rose-Brown